Madame's Mirror

The Stylish Whitney Houston

2012-02-13T06:18:00.000-08:00

I surely will miss you Whitney, your music will forever be in my heart.
xoxo Madame Q

How It All Started: The Brief History of Madame Q/The Creation of Madame's Mirror

2012-02-09T10:10:00.000-08:00

I was about 5 when I started studying the shoes the woman in my family and other woman around me wore. It was and still is something about the structured objects that strikes me. I remember playing in my auntie Octavia's heels, my grandma Rita's jewels and imitating my moms passionate conversations about life, all at the age of 6. My mom said when it came to shoes, I had an instant connection, in fact, I didn't walk until she brought me my first pair of "real walking shoes". Mom adds, "Maybe it's because I went in labor with you while I was shopping for shoes in a small boutique on the upper east side. Your auntie didn't let us leave until she got you the shoes she wanted you to have. I was pissed off at her for weeks. So I understand why you love shoes so much but you're fascination with them is unbelievable." I looked at my mom with a smile and said "mom every trendy girl has an obsession with shoes and anything else that goes into a wardrobe. It's not just me." She said, "Yes most girls love shoes but It's the shoes you wear that makes you different."

BE YOU NO MATTER WHAT!

I was 16 when I had that conversation with my mom, I loved it so much I wrote it in my journal immediately after she left the room. Mom and I had that talk because I was getting teased by peers in school about some of the shoes I wore and it bothered me. I even tried wearing sneakers just so I could blend in. After walking in Air Jordan sneakers for a day, I immediately returned them and bought 2 pairs of colorful lacy shoes by Diesel. I had to face the fact that being me was more comfortable than trying to walk in shoes that are not made for me. People eventually started to respect what I liked, I guess they realized I wasn't backing down anymore.

Side Bar: Some people may not understand how difficult it can be for artsy teenagers in high school. If it wasn't for my family and close friends, I've would've hidden my true creativity because a lot of people didn't understand it. How many teenagers or adults do you know shrinking who they are just to fit in?

This pic is super funny but hey at least I've evolved since then.
At SUNY Morrisville in 2003, getting ready to
head to the sports party. Our campus theme parties were the best!

At SUNY Old Westbury
May 2006. I died when I came across this pic!
Smh. Funny thing is I still have those boots. I'll
wear them totally different now. Look out for the
replay!

Continuing on....

When it was time for me to decide to go to college, mom was a super advocate for me attending the Fashion Institute of Technology. She believed I would have the best experiences there and knew I'll be amongst many other students who were also creative and talented. However, I had other plans for my future and had my mind fixed on being a journalist. I headed to SUNY Morrisville for journalism because I yearned to cover international stories about human rights. However, after watching a few documentaries, studying about international reporters and finally getting a sense of myself, I realized women lifestyle reporting was my best fit. After all, I finally realized that I had a thing for fashion and other arts, it was natural and I just couldn't kick it.

stay tuned for more on Where It All Started: The Brief History of Madame Q and How Madame's Mirror was created.

xoxo Madame Q

February Obsessions

2012-02-09T09:09:00.000-08:00

Spring is right around the corner!!!! I'm starting my spring this month rocking colorful pieces and star studded shoes. Email me a picture of your ready for spring looks to madamemirror@gmail.com and I'll post it on the blog. We love to let our Madamettes shine : ).

I hope you enjoy my February Obsession, I literally go crazy when I run out of my Dior Show mascara. It's a scene you don't want to see!

xoxo Madame Q

I Spot A Madamette!!!

2012-01-23T12:15:00.000-08:00

Chris in vintage fur

Get into the gloves. You guys know I die for spikes&studs way before they came back in!!

We have a thing going on!!!

As I walking in the village, I spotted a fabulous young man by the name of Chris sitting on some steps. He was smoking a cigeratte and all though I wished he put it out, I couldn't help but notice his killer gloves. I automatically knew I've just came in contact with a new Madme's Mirror fan.

Love the Look?

Chris and Q Mixed In One by madameq featuring a cable knit hat

TopShop skinny fit jeans, £38
Lace up boots, $27
3 1 Phillip Lim satchel handbag, $855
One Teaspoon cotton glove, €35
TopShop cable knit hat, $32

xoxo Madame Q

MM Out and About: Bande Des Quatres

2012-01-23T10:39:00.000-08:00

Madame Q with the talented Erin Wahed, Founder and Designer of Dande Des Quatres

These pieces are so over the moon!! Visit bandedesquatres.com for more info on this collection.

Model rocking Erin Wahed Jewels. Styled by Mario Horne

Ana Toure, the fabulous publicist

Giving sexy with stylist Marquis Bias

the fabulous stylist, Mario Horne

Get into that HAT. SMH. Too damn fabulous.

#WORKKK

Marquis Bias working them sequins genie pants! He does not play around :).

xoxo Madame Q

MM Out&About

2012-01-17T21:59:00.000-08:00

Be a genie and make things happen!

This post is long over due and you guys are probably so over me. However, I 've been working on some great things. With so much going on, of course I had to capture some behind the scene photos of whats to come for you next month. More of MM Look Book with of course yours truly Madame Q, Style&Home editions featuring the passionate @tamarabinteriors and more beauty stories with the fabulous @jenknowsbeauty for our MM Makeup Mavens. Hope you enjoy!

I'm so loving this vintage purse :()

Trying to get ready for the pic.

@tamarabinteriors getting excited about the color story.

@tamarabinteriors loving the grey chair.

They serve pretty ok Thai food but their slushes are to die for :).

mmmmmm

He loves the Jeffrey Campbell

Stylist Julissa Escobosa

I love the plaid and cheetah prints together:).

J rocking a Knicks cap fabulously #sooofab

Giving MUCH HUNNIES!!!!

Working it out!

Heaarting the Madame Luv :).

For the MM Makeup Mavens feauturing @jenknowsbeauty. Full story coming soon!

MM Look book feauturing Ishara Knox. Stay tuned for the full style session story.

finding a great ensemble for these Jeffries

Add bright colors to give these shoes it's glory

Shorts and lace-up booties gives an edgy look

paired with the perfect wedges this jumpsuit will GIVE EVERYTHING!!!

xoxo Madame Q

After Holiday

2012-01-09T08:09:00.001-08:00

After Holiday by madameq featuring a leather biker jacket

Yes the holidays are over but this doesn't mean we have to store away our sequins pieces. Continue to look fab adding toned down garbs. Have fun this new year, it's only right!

Closet Keepers

2012-01-04T23:08:00.000-08:00

stop by madameq on polyvore.com

This time last year, I was heartbroken and hopelessly dedicated to doing things in my norm. I knew if I wanted to pursue a wholesome me, I had to start doing things fearlessly. I pledged in 2011 to start living and being who I want no matter who liked it. I advise people to follow and encourage others to do the same. Some of us will get hurt or inflict pain on our loved one because of the choices we make. We have to learn to let go and let others live how they desire. I've been guilty of trying to force one to adhere to life as I do and It simply does not work. The person became unhappy and bitter towards me for a long period of time. Although my feedback was coming from a good place, It's not my life to make their ultimate decisions.

This is a problem across the globe and so many relationships go down hill because of it. Who does one think they are to stop another from doing what they want? I don't think anyone like to be told they can't do things they want. Sometimes we may think were saving someone from danger but most times were just pushing them away. We have to let them experience life on their own in order to grow. People share more about themselves when they don't feel like their being judged or attacked. It makes it easier for us to focus on being there for them in time of need.

No Closet Keepers Allowed!!!

Many are in the closet hiding who they are and I'm not just referring to sexual or gender preferences. There are a lot of people keeping secrets about the careers they truly want because their family don't support their true talents. Some are even hiding behind other people and living in their shadows, news flash: FIND OUT WHO YOU ARE :), we need more individuality!! Lots are in lover relationships and want to go out and explore other things but is afraid they won't find someone else. What ever your hiding I suggest you come out or you'll end up missing out on something great. 2012 is all about keeping the fearless attitude and doing you at maximum. Support your family and friends to be who they are no matter what. Stay away from the closet keepers!!!

xoxo Madame Q

Fall 2011: Fierce, Fun & Fabulous

2011-12-20T20:54:00.000-08:00

Fall has came and gone and 2012 is right around the corner. No worries, I know you'll love to sip on some hot tea or cocoa and read Madame's Mirror :).

Enjoy some fun and fab pics of my fall 2011!

Harlem's Fashion Row Event

xoxo Madame Q

Cheers To Being Fabulous!!!!!!!!!!

2011-12-16T15:33:00.000-08:00

Last year the girls and I had a blast at our ladies night out holiday party. We brought out the wine, finger foods, delicious deserts and of course good conversation. We each brought a super cute gift for under $25 dollars to keep the flow of the holiday cheer. We can always count on each other to have an amazing time and I can't wait to see what 2012 brings us. Knowing us, it will be more fabulous than the last.

If you're having a holiday party and want to share it on Madame's Mirror, email pics of your event @ madamemirror@hotmail.com and I'll share them on the site!

xoxo Madame Q

Holiday 2011: Fab Beauty Gifts for $50 or less!!

2011-12-04T14:06:00.001-08:00

Tiz the season to look over the top and of course give your loved ones fabulous gifts!

Make Me Over by madameq on polyvore.com

SEPHORA COLLECTION Makeup Studio Blockbuster ($440 Value) Makeup...
$50 - sephora.com

Sephora Favorites Lashstash ($133 Value) Lashstash
$45 - sephora.com

Bite Luminous Crème Lipstick Set of 5 ($50 Value) Luminous Creme...
$25 - sephora.com

Sephora Favorites Give Me Some Lip ($63 Value) Give Me Some Lip
$25 - sephora.com

Victoria'S Secret Party Perfect Makeup Kit
$18 - victoriassecret.com

Victoria'S Secret Pro Airbrush Fx Face Primer Spf 20
$18 - victoriassecret.com

SEPHORA by OPI Glimmer Wonderland Eighteen Piece Mini Nail Colour Set...
$48 - sephora.com

SEPHORA COLLECTION Holiday Travel Clutch Brush Set ($128 Value)...
$34 - sephora.com

Victoria'S Secret Victoria’S Secret Bombshell Holiday Shimmer...
$20 - victoriassecret.com

Victoria'S Secret Makeup Bag
$12 - victoriassecret.com

Sephora: Laura Mercier Mini Kohl Eye Pencil Set ($67 Value): Eyeliner
$32 - sephora.com

Victoria'S Secret Holiday Eyes Kit
$15 - victoriassecret.com

Holiday 2011: Fragrance Obsessions by madameq on polyvore.com

Sephora Favorites Deluxe Fragrance Sampler For Him ($96 Value) Deluxe...
$50 - sephora.com

Victoria'S Secret Holiday Collection Give A Little Pink™ Eau De...
$24 - victoriassecret.com

Marc Jacobs Rollerball Trio ($104 Value) Rollerball Trio
$38 - sephora.com

Victoria'S Secret Sexy Little Things® Noir Tease™ Mini Gift Set
$18 - victoriassecret.com

Victoria'S Secret Very Sexy® For Him Mini Fragrance Ornament
$10 - victoriassecret.com

JUSTIN BIEBER SOMEDAY by JUSTIN BIEBER 0.34 oz Eau de Parfum...
$18 - sephora.com

Victoria'S Secret Deluxe Fragrance Mist Gift Set
$45 - victoriassecret.com

Very Sexy® For Him Mini Fragrance Ornament - Very Sexy® - Victoria's...
$42 - victoriassecret.com

Juicy Couture Spray Pen Set ($48 Value) Spray Pen Set
$35 - sephora.com

xoxo Madame Q

Madame Q's Obsessions: Spikes, Studs, Sparkle&Sequins

2011-11-11T17:39:00.001-08:00

Sequins and Studs are in heavy this season here are some ways you can rock it out!

xoxo Madame Q

Madame Q's Obsessions: Furla's Candy Bag

2011-11-11T10:11:00.001-08:00

Candy Holiday 2011

Furla is definitely one of my go to places for fabulous leather bags and most of all their customer service is amazing. I have a few of their piper styles that are to die for but I'm currently obsessing over their whimsical candy bags. These babies are made of plastic but has the structured shape ready to hold just enough for the day and/or evening. Most of all they're super affordable, starting at just $200!

xoxo Madame Q

Halloween Glam

2011-10-28T12:41:00.000-07:00

Madame Q Halloween 2010

The Girls

I've decided not to dress up for Halloween this year, well I never did it habitually anyway. That doesn't mean I don't have any cool tips on how you can fabulously stand out amongst the many. I'll also keep you within budget!! There are plenty of costumes right in your reach, starting with your closet.

Have Fun Ladies!!!

xoxo Madame Q

The R Factor: Replay

2011-10-06T20:27:00.000-07:00

Sexy Little Things top by Victoria's Secret worn in 2009

and again in 2011

No one really likes to repeat their favorite outfits! What about replaying you're favorite pieces? You can save lots by wearing your old time favorites with new ones to get a fresh look. Trust me no one really cares if you wear the black dress from last week with a vest and cool accessories this week. It's all about how you style it!

xoxo Madame Q

MM Look Book: Transitional Pieces

2011-10-04T20:56:00.000-07:00

It was just September minutes ago.... and now like many, I'm scrambling through my cubbies for scarves, hosiery, fluffy sweaters and cool jackets. Lets face it, summer is gone and unless you plan on moving to the caribbean or somewhere else freaking hot, transitioning pieces is much needed. I'm literally going through my closet as we speak to see what dresses, skirts and hughes I can continue to wear from summer to fall. Some of you have the glory of wearing what you want and for the rest of us, work's dress code policy is a must. That doesn't mean we can't show our personalities!! No worries Madame's Mirror Look Book is here to stop headaches and to save you from going broke. This is the time for some serious R Factor. Stay tuned!!

xoxo Madame Q

Out&About: Summer 2011

2011-09-15T20:26:00.000-07:00

My summer 2011 was amazing!!! The girls and I made the most of it by hanging out in some of the best restaurants, lounges and of course the comfort of our own homes. I'm going to miss getting fresh fruit from the street vendors and sipping wine in my backyard but fall is approaching and I'm so ready for layering fab garbs.

Here are a few memories....

Goodbye summer and hello fall!!!

xoxo Madame Q

Picture It and It's Yours!!

2011-09-15T10:11:00.000-07:00

Sooooo I'm walking and talking on my phone in Columbus Circle, like always I'm chatting it up and looking out for any statement pieces that catches my eye. Funny, you'd think I'll be looking out for street lights! Anyways, I spot this fabulous individual wearing a fierce black fedora, I immediately want to find out where she got it from. I decide to ask the lady about her look, I open my mouth and nothing comes out. I freeze and so does everything around me except for OH MY GOODNESS, right before my eyes, one of the most fashionable on this planet, Rachel Zoe with her baby boy and nanny.

Now I've seen and been around plenty of celebrities, well mostly designers and stylist and I only ask them the questions I need for my articles. I don't go crazy and make them super uncomfortable because I know they want to be treated as normal as possible. However I have a top 20 list that I must meet before I leave this earth and she makes #4, rightfully place after Oprah, Michelle and Barack Obama.

Continuing On....

I tell my friend Tiffany, who I've been on the phone with during the whole fiasco. She's super excited and tells me to go and talk to her because Tiff knows just how inspiring Rachel has been for me. You'd think it's natural for me to approach her but when I really admire someone it's quite the opposite. I got over my shyness and there I am face to face talking with the women who has inspired me in major ways.

The night before meeting Rachel....

Tuesday night I rushed home to watch the Rachel Zoe Project on Bravo. I learn so much from watching her show, she's fabulous yes but more importantly she's building an empire and it all started from her just doing what she loves. Her passion is driving her in the right places and at the right time. If you're a person who is pushing to get what you want out of life, Rachel's testimony is validation that if you believe in yourself and work hard, you'll get what you want. Of course there will be road blocks but finding solutions to get through them is what makes you stronger and unstoppable. That night I asked myself, "If I was ever to meet Rachel Zoe, what will I ask her?". The higher power must of heard my cry because the next day he gave me my chance. We gave each other compliments, I love her hat and she loves my shades. "Your super chic, I'm just saying.... and those Prada shades are to die for", says Rachel. The moment with Rachel was my validation to continue doing what I love best and working towards the big picture.

If there's something you want, go after it. Remember, if you can see it... You can achieve it!

xoxo Madame Q

Come Sip N Chat!!

2011-08-23T20:46:00.000-07:00

sip n chat by madameq on Polyvore.com

No matter where the ladies and I are we love to sip, eat and most of all chat about anything that comes to mind. Literally gagging over issues: from shoes to boobs and out of all topics there is always one or two that gets everyone heated. Although we may laugh at, cry with, love or hate each other in these moments, we learn a lot from the conversations. Our bond becomes greater and it warms our hearts to know that we don't stand alone in the things we face. You wouldn't be surprise that I'm going to launch the Sip n Chat series this fall. I'm super excited and looking forward to your feedback on the stories and hope it will inspire you all.

xoxo Madame Q

Breaking Away...

2011-08-08T09:28:00.000-07:00

Loving the water front scene...

My fab cousin Bri

Saidah Baba Talibah

Were loving carnival

Before things get too crazy for me in every direction, I chose to take a trip to Toronto to visit Brisette (Bri), one of my favorite cousins. Yes just like best friends, there is also a such thing called best cousins. Well at least in my world there is! The great thing about Bri, she is successful in most parts of her life and I learn a lot from her. With so much on my plate and hardly any real time for myself, I felt another melt down happening and trust me I have too much to loose so that's not an option. I knew my cousin would be the best person to consult with.

In Toronto I was planning on doing little exploring as possible. It's not my first time going and I was just in the mood to lounge in Bri's new condo, lay by the pool side, have some wine coolers, and dish out my concerns to see her outlook on things. Well I should have known better, Bri had other plans to get me back on track. There is no way I was going to be a bump on a log during Caribana, one of the most popular cultural events in Toronto. How could I say no, to caribbean food and soca music? It's in my blood, once the tunes come on my hips start moving on their own.

Carnival is the air...

People from all over the world came to celebrate the culture of the West Indies. Beautiful men and women in fabulous costumes, music blasting throughout the parkway, people dancing and singing everywhere and on anyone. It seems that day everyone forgot about their worries, they focused on celebrating life. I know I did and with the blessing of my cousin pulling me through streets to follow the bands, I realized how small my problems were. If you ever been to carnival in any caribbean island or in cities like Toronto, New York and Miami, than you know following a band through the parkway is pure MADNESS. With so many people packing the streets dancing and following the bands, I thought for sure Bri and I were going to get trampled over but every time we would hear one of our favorite songs we would run back in the street to do it all over again.

There's the beauty in my visit, caribana gave me the healing I needed. I would never forget when I looked over at my cousin who hand is in mine, in the air, waving to the beat, dancing with much spirit and her face is full of joy. I knew in that moment Bri let go the worries of her own and I'm thankful we released them together.

Luv you Bri.

xoxo Madame Q

My Fabulous 27

2011-07-27T20:34:00.000-07:00

There are plenty of reasons why I feel blessed and fabulous at 27, being alive is the obvious but the ride to this peak time of my life is what thrills me most. Sometimes we focus too much on the destination and not the journey and although both are important, how we get to these places is what makes our testimonies special. I've encountered quite a few road blocks through my passage but with motivation and the support of people, I've managed to pull through. Thank Goodness for those who have helped me along away. I can truly say they are apart of who I've become so far.

You'd think I was a billionaire the way I praise my life but I'm just thankful for everything. I pray I continue to have the blessings of good health, great family and friends. After all, material things come and go but a great support system is hard to fine. I hear lots of stories of people turning their backs on loved ones who are suffering and well that's just sad. What kind of friend leaves others to fall flat on their face? I found out through experiences, the beauty of relationships is because of its ups and downs. I don't need people to be around only when it's time to sip champaign. I also don't expect people to do things for me just because I do certain things for them. All I need is understanding and a shoulder to lean on when shit hits the fan. I'm a piece of work and far from perfect but I'm protective and supportive to the people I love. Although they piss me off from time to time, it doesn't stop me from being there for them.

Kelly Cutrone talks about "The No Matter What Club", in her book "Normal Gets You Nowhere, which you must go and buy after reading this post. Cutrone talks about being picky about the people we call our friends. She said, "Most of us are too quick to call people our friends, too quick to say I love you and to quick to write people off forever." She explains how the people we love may one day let us down or hurt us, but that doesn't mean we cut them off. Instead we need to reach out and be that life jacket when the one we love is drowning in the deep end.

Look at what happen to the talented Amy Winehouse, at age 27 she was found dead in her apartment from a drug overdose. My friend spilled the news as we were on our way to dinner to celebrate my 27th birthday. Now I know Amy chose to do drugs but I can't help to wonder how many people gave up on her. It saddens me to see her life end so short. So many people spoke about her addiction instead of talking about how we can prevent people from ending their lives so soon. There are so many ways we can be supportive without tolerating someone's bad choices. It starts with a simple phone call or text message ( the new way of communication) just to show that you care.

To My "No Matter What Club".
Thanks for being there for me no matter what! You all know I'm crazy but sweet and I mean well.

Rest In Peace Amy Winehouse

pic of Winehouse from google images

xoxo Madame Q

Out&About

2011-07-24T20:24:00.000-07:00

Hanging out with friends is always a thrill.... we have a blast just being ourselves. No drinks necessary but a glass of wine or martini is always a pleasure right along with some good grub. Check out the side bar Fab Places to Dine and Lime to visit some of the best spots in NYC.

xoxo Madame Q

Sweet 16 Dreams

2011-07-12T20:16:00.000-07:00

At 16 I visioned that I'll have the career of my dreams, be married with a baby and living in a fabulous house by the age of 26. Did anyone catch that? First and foremost, why was I thinking about being married with a baby at that age? Don't get me wrong I'm happy I wasn't thinking of having a family before graduating college but damn.

No wonder why I never knew how to be single, I've been looking for a husband every since I was 16 and now that I'm 26 and going on 27 in 8 days, I'm nowhere close to being married. Thank goodness!! What a disaster it would be if I committed to another person before committing to myself. Now I'm not saying there is anything wrong with having all of that at 26 or later. I'm just saying... divorce rates are high for some of the silliest reasons. I have no time to be giving anyone a crazy reasons on why "It's just not working out".

Does this mean I regret any of my past relationships? Hell no! I've learned a lot from each of them. I crack myself up on how I use to try and change some of my boyfriends back then. Hey I was on the prow to being married by 26. Who was stopping me? Each time I found "the boy/man of my dreams" I was fixed on going in for the long haul. Even when there was no "official title" I treated the person like they were the only one. Lucky them... silly me. Like I said I knew nothing about being single. There are plenty of things I could've done differently but I guess it wasn't in my plans to do so. I'm happy with my experiences and what matters now is how I love from here on.

Early this year I made a decision to break away from a 5 year relationship which was the best one I've had so far. I feared for a while that I'll may never find someone to love me the same way but right now that's the least of my worries. I know when Love is ready for me again it will show up unexpectedly and this time around there is no rush. I'm taking my time!

Look out... I'm successful, sexy and single. Who gon' check me boo?

xoxo Madame Q

June: Two Faced

2011-06-16T15:15:00.000-07:00

I hope you guys had fun last month shining and meeting new people. I know I did and I will continue to scout for strangers and I know you will too. This month is all about the Gemini and the importance of versatility. Letting your personalities loose may scare some people and you may just be called two faced but trust me, it will improve your development.

Remember that shady term? I sure do! Growing up my friends and I took the word seriously. Whenever someone showed a side of themselves we never saw before they were harshly called TWO FACED. To this day having two sides isn't expected or shall I say accepted. Funny, after the storm of reality TV and political scandal, people still find it hard to believe people could have different personalities.

I find it's best to be yourself even if it upsets some people. If you hide who you are, you'll be around people who don't know you and when you finally decide to show your true side you'll be nothing more than a total stranger. Not to mention if you're not being yourself, your probably doing things that you don't like which hinders your growth.

Quit playing it safe people! It's time to spice it up and put on different faces for different occasions. Being the same person all the time is just too damn tiring. Let that other sides of you break out, there is no need to keep them locked in. Who ever doesn't like it can kiss your backside!

xoxo Madame Q

Memorial Weekend!!!!

2011-05-27T11:28:00.000-07:00

The girls and I at the first day of Sex and the City2 last Memorial Day Weekend

Last Memorial Day Weekend at the beach. We had so much fun!

Nothing better than a Brooklyn Barbeque!

I'm super excited to be home in NYC, the weather is beautiful and there is plenty of things to do. Each year the girls and I spend Memorial Day weekend together and boy do we have fun. We hit plenty of scenes: parties, cookouts, cultural events and of course shopping. Most importantly we bond and build memories that will last a life time. Be safe but daring this weekend and of course do it all in style!

Memorial Weekend Must Haves by madameq featuring flat shoes

chow
xoxo Madame Q

Out&About

2011-05-19T20:10:00.000-07:00

This spring/summer I plan on being out more, remember were shining? There's nothing like exploring the world with loved ones and sociables, you feel so unstoppable and limitless. Lets try taking over the world together! Hey, why not? I hope this new section: Out&About will inspire you to head out and be busy bodies. Nothing is worse than watching time go by and leaving you behind. Lets move with it!

Stay Connected...

So much more to explore so stay tuned!!!

xoxo Madame Q

MAY You Shine!

2011-05-19T19:34:00.000-07:00

May you shine and let the world know who you are. Grab your most loved carryall, striking pair of shoes, besties and hit the scene. Spring is here and with summer on it's way, it's the best time to be out and about networking to create new ventures. Go out and talk to total strangers, find out what they do and why they do it. Trust me, you'll meet some interesting people, you may find a new friend, business partner or the love of your life. Hey you never know! Don't be afraid of teaming up with people who are doing it different than you or even bigger, you'll learn so much more.

Remember haters will always hate especially when your on the right track. So... do you and let them hate!

Chow

super heroes by madameq featuring snake handbags

xoxo Madame Q

April Showers

2011-04-17T11:48:00.000-07:00

pics from polyvore.com

In the month of April we in NY always expect lots of rain but as annoying as it can be, it's much needed. What's growth with out it's most valuable source? Just like the earth we need the nourishment in our own personal lives in order to be at our best. We can go up and down in emotions in a heart beat. Just as things seem so right they can be so wrong and there you are starting from scratch again. Hey it's life but how we learn form our troubles and experience matters most.

My friend Althea's new br wall. Fun and uplifting!

This month I'm focusing on the best place to experience at home, work and play. Trust me if my home does not have the proper energy flowing, everything else dwindles down. This spring I'm adding bright colors and cool decor to keep my spirits high. A simple plant or throw pillow will make a difference in my space. When is the last time you spiced up the color in your home or added an accessory? I bet it will brighten your mood.

Living alone has it perks but I sure miss my family from time to time. My family is the core of who so staying in touch keeps me grounded. My sisters crack me up with their personal stories and although we tell each other from time to time, we love each other dearly. My 6 yr-old nephew lifts my mood elevator all the time with his foolish yet charming personality. He knows what he wants and how he wants it. Kids these days!

Staying organized and focused on my vision at work will keep me aligned with company goals and my associates needs. When is the last time you cleaned out your work mail or connected with your people? Exactly! We all know time management is key and without proper communication well stretch ourselves thin. Stick to the game plan!

What's hard work with out a little play time? Call up your besties and have a girls night in. A best way to unwind, talk trash with a glass of red wine and some great snacks while watching your favorite movies or shows. It doesn't matter if you fall asleep with glass in hand, we all have long weeks and your true friends always understands.

P.S.
This month were dancing in the rain, we need the cleansing to focus on new experiences. Fearlessly of course!

xoxo Madame Q

The Hungry Girl Chronicles!

2011-03-24T18:37:00.000-07:00

I've always been a slim girl but because of my recent unwanted lost of 10 pounds, I'm 26 and I think I look 14. Now you're probably thinking... "Oh please" but seriously I need to eat healthier because I'm starting to disappear. I work in a fast paste environment and my schedule changes from day to day. Sometimes I only get to eat once and it can be anything from a slice of pizza to a cheese burger and fries. I have a good ole hearty meal twice a week (not cooked by me). I'm no expert but I know this routine is no good.

I find living alone makes it a little more difficult for me to eat good also. For example whenever I go grocery shopping a lot of the food goes to waste. Whenever I do cook it's only for me and sometimes a friend, again food goes to waste. I feel so guilty about it because there are too many people starving in the world. Now I just stock up on juice and buy my food on the go. I must change this habit fast!

Whenever I mention gaining 10-15 pounds to my friends who are bigger than me, they laugh because they think I'm fishing for compliments. I want to be able to fill out my dresses again with the natural curves I have. I know many people who go up and down in size, I'm one of them but this time I can't except it. It's definitely time to get it popin in the kitchen!

My first step is to grocery shopping. I'll talk to an expert after my trip to the grocery, I want to see if what I buy on my own will help first. Then I'll contact a few professionals to get their advice and then compare both list. Wish me luck!

One of my favorite fruits... I've been longing for these babies!

Please stay tune for more on the Hungry Girl Chronicles for interviews with health experts on how to maintain healthy weight.

xoxo Madame Q

Spring Must Haves: White Collared Shirts

2011-03-24T14:58:00.000-07:00

Hero: White Collared Shirt by madameq featuring red skinny jeans

I'm not going to lie, I use to only wear white collared shirts at work, church and other formal occasions. Now you can catch me enjoying a nice sandwich and smoothie on a mid saturday afternoon in a crisp one, with blue jeans, a bright color scarf and well you get the picture. The white shirt has found it's way in my everyday wardrobe it's simple yet fabulous. It gives your look downplay when set with sporty pieces and sets the stage for your statement accessories to take their place.

xoxo Madame Q

Spring Cleaning Process: The R Factor

2011-03-24T13:30:00.000-07:00

The R Factor by madameq featuring denim shorts

A few years a go I came up with the R Factor which means, reuse, to revamp to be reworked. Yessss! While going through the spring cleaning process you will find things that can be saved. Like an old pair of pants can be made into an awesome pair of shorts. An old skirt can reworked as a fabulous shirt and the ideas are limitless. Hopefully some of you have started the S.P.C and have your things sorted to what you'll use, save and donate.

There is always another pile of belongings that sticks around and we all know it all too well. The MAYBE pile! You know.. maybe it will fit in a week, maybe I'll like it again, maybe this trend will return. I crack myself up sometimes at all the possibilities I come up with just to keep a certain item. Thanks to the R Factor some of my 'maybes" becomes fabulous yeses and the rest you'll add to the donate pile. More than anything we'll save money and some old favorites.

xoxo Madame Q

Oh No... I Can't Find Anything to Wear!

2011-03-16T09:57:00.000-07:00

When ever the seasons change I have a hard time narrowing down what I want to give away, keep or store. Not to mention finding something to wear spontaneously is impossible because my closets always look like they're at war. With that said, ladies and gentlemen I think it's time for some serious spring cleaning. I did a little but need to get on with the process.

It's always good to go through this matter with a friend someone who understands you're ever evolving style and keeps it real. You know it's easy for us to keep everything even when we know its a tragedy to our style, too small or worn out. So I call over my old time friend, the fabulous Julissa Escobosa, a stylist and blogger, to help me get right for the season.

We came up with some steps for the Spring Clean Process (S.C.P) but decided to give you two at a time. That way your thoughts don't go all over the place and trust me doing too much at one time will overwhelm you and you'll never want to finish.

First Think about you're style and what it is you want to focus on this spring. It can be edgy chic, tribal boho or classic. What have you, narrow it down so you'll know what to donate, keep and store. This will help you fill in the gaps with new pieces after your process is complete

Second Look at your closets and other storage spaces to see if you need to add or take away. Keep in mind less is more so be very selective.

Later this week I will post some of springs must have looks to help you with your selection process. Everyone has different styles so all looks may not work for you but I'm quite sure you'll find a piece or a few you may want to keep or add to your wardrobe.

Let us begin!

Stay tune for more on S.C.P!
xoxo Madame Q

The Color Code: Everything Bright

2011-03-15T17:07:00.000-07:00

The Color Code by madameq featuring flap handbags

FERRAGAMO S CREATIONS high heel wedge
$2,500 - thecorner.com

Two tone shoes
$149 - zara.com

ASOS suede leather shoes
$170 - asos.com

Flap handbag
$149 - zara.com

Dorothy Perkins structured handbag
22 GBP - dorothyperkins.com

Proenza Schouler flap bag
$1,495 - cultstatus.com.au

Now, If you know me than you know that bright colors are my best friends and I'm so happy this Spring designers are adding vibrant palettes to some of their signature styles. Lord knows we need it, I know I do, not to mention winter in NYC was the coldest and gloomy ever. I'm quite sure wearing something other than black and grays will make someone smile some where.

Tip: Like anything in life too much of something may or may not be good so play around with the colors before you take it on too seriously.

xoxo Madame Q

A Positive Mind = A Miraculous You!

2011-03-15T16:30:00.000-07:00

We all know March can be full of madness but I think most of us secretly crave it. This craziness can be a great motivator depending on how we look at it or take it on. I don't think anyone is ready for every obstacle that comes their way but on our journey to becoming what we want we have to get our minds batted up. We can want the world but if our thoughts are tuff it will take longer than ever.

For example, I graduated from college in 2008, was working part time and living with my grand mother. There was so much I wanted to do and become and because of the economy's turmoil, fear took over me. Some of the interviews I went to was unsuccessful or did not fit my needs. For weeks I suffered from anxiety and with strong faith I began to come out of it slowly. One day, I said to myself, that in order for me to get anything else, I have to appreciate the things I have now. With a positive mind and attitude everything started to turn around for me.

Prior to graduation I talked about moving out and with my low rate of finding a new job, I hesitated. "What if I can't pay my rent or buy food? Oh hell, buy shoes!" Those were the thoughts that haunt me but as soon as I came into my positive energy that was no longer an issue. Hold that thought....

Now I believe in professionalism and have awareness in many religions. I don't want anyone to think I'm forcing one on to the other but I am going to express my faith about being a Christian. If you feel disrespected in anyway I apologize and hope not to loose you as a reader.

I shall continue....

A manager randomly approached me while working and told me a female associate is looking for a roommate. She had no idea I was looking but was happy to let the girl know I was interested. Now I'm huge believer of God using humans as angels so that day I believed he sent me one. Within a month I moved out on great faith and from there things took off. Now remember I'm starting to appreciate the things that are in front of me. I became a rock star at my part time job just by looking at it as a opportunity to be great while getting to where I need to be. My managers picked up on my ambition and empowered me to do different task at work. Within two month I was promoted full time and with in two years I was promoted another three times. Not only did I stay in the first apartment with a roommate for two years but I now live alone in a one bedroom apartment. One day that would change but for now I'm good :).

My God, Thank You for your blessings!

You see ladies and gentlemen this story yes is about me but more importantly about you. There are going to be plenty of let downs and road blocks but you have to keep pushing. Have faith and believe God has a plan for you, he has done so much for me and the people that surround me and I'm sure he will do the same for you. God gives us nothing we can't handle and only things that will make us stronger. Winners figure it out and can only do it with a different mentality.

It's time for spring cleaning, why not start with our minds?

xoxo Madame Q

This Year's #Much Needed: Ladies' Night Out!

2011-02-23T20:17:00.000-08:00

February is always a full time party for me, so many bday celebrations. Can you imagine the craziness? It's the 23rd day in and I'm seriously just catching my breath from days full of over the top fun. Hanging out with the ladies is always great, we share our drama, especially the stuff we can't say over the phone or through a text message. We get to let out and be wild and don't care who sees. We get to wear the dress we've been dreaming about all week and those shoes that hurt but don't care because w it's Ladies' Night Out and we deserves all the necessary attention.
This year let LNO happen frequently, it's therapeutic especially when it's with your best girlies. For some of us it's a mixture of family and friends or just one or the other. How ever you have it, take advantage of the moments you share, trust me you'll find yourself being saved a few times. I know I do! I love laughing at what we share and the stupid things we do. I admit that I sometimes hate it when my girlies keep it too real with me at times but love the fact they care.

This year the girls and I have decided to be fearless so we're doing things out of our norm. Our most favorite LNO was to... SIN City! Don't judge... we had major fun and tipped all the best dancers! We loved their moves so much, we scheduled pole dancing classes two days later and I must say some of us are pretty damn flexible :).

I hope you enjoy the pics from some of our LNOs!

xoxo Madame Q

Happy V-day!

2011-02-14T08:42:00.000-08:00

I hope you enjoy your day with the one that make your heart pumps...

xoxo Madame Q

Intimate Obsessions: Getting Out Your Comfort Zone

2011-02-06T16:17:00.000-08:00

Intimate Obsessions by madameq featuring panties thongs

Ladies I know were juggling a thousand things at once but there is no excuse for tacky underwear. Some of us are hanging on to those cotton panties that should've been ditched long ago, yes the ones that has "leave me alone" written all over them, throw them away. Fast PLEASE! What about that favorite bra we won't give up? The wire is out and the shape gives nothing, yes it's time to throw that crap away too. Your intimate wardrobe is way over due for an upgrade. It doesn't matter if you single, a mother of 5, married for 10 years or a virgin, our underwear is important. Intimacy starts within and bras and panties are the greatest accessory. Don't wait until V Day to get that something sexy from your partner or you buying "lucky panties" just to score. Bring out that sexy B$TcH all year round!

Trust me I've been there and thought I was long gone from crazy habits but then realized...

I've been working for a top lingerie apparel company for the last 4 years and although I have great intimate apparel, I stick with my basic routine: a black push up bra and a matching black thong or hip cheekie. I buy color all the time but find myself only wearing them once in a blue moon. I wear push up bras because I love the cleavage and I hardly ever wear, well almost never wear any without padding. I realized I've been stuck in the same routine for years! It happens to the best of us but we have to switch it up. How many of you out there are stuck in the same routine and dying to try something new? As for me, I'm going shopping for unlined bras preferably lace in bright colors and I will update you on my ventures hopefully you'll be inspired to change your norm too.

#intimateobsessions by madameq featuring lace panties

Stay tuned for more on intimate obsessions!

xoxo Madame Q

#LoveIsMusic

2011-02-06T13:28:00.000-08:00

This song is dedicated to all the love birds.... May you enjoy being together and build only to be stronger as one.

xoxo Madame Q

Oh, Love

2011-02-04T09:47:00.000-08:00

Hello February by madameq featuring suede handbags

Were 4 days into this crazy month of love and 10 days away from that one day that gets every female going crazy. Cupid has his tricks and treats this year, well at least for me he does. Many of you are in love with that one guy who stole you're heart years ago, some may have just laid eyes on that special one, some are dating for fun and others may be heart broken or in a ruff spot this year. Either way, LOVE is on all of our minds and for some strange reason February is always the highlighted month for it all. WHY? I guess it's because of all the marketing and media overload people always seem to fall into the Valentine craze but if we feel special all year around, Valentine's Day will just be another day. Easier said than done, right?

Love will never be easy and finding the right one comes with a lot of struggle. We just need to get to the bottom of what we want and I think it might clear out a lot of fog. Why should we settle for less? We as females are protective and love to conquer and get high off feeling like we won our lover's heart. My cousin Brisette said something to me the other day that struck me deeply, "Why should we always be the one who works it out and stay around?, Why can't we learn to be the girl that got away?" She's right, sometimes walking away and letting things work it on it's own is best but it's just not that easy for many.

This month for you and I, I'm writing about that four letter word that drives us insane and to the deep end. Stuff people wouldn't dare to write about, I surely will. It's the point of no return and who ever decides to tune it, great, just hold on to your seat. It will be a bumpy road but a much needed destination.

xoxo Madame Q

See You later January, Hello February

2011-01-31T14:00:00.000-08:00

Towards the end of each year, many people make a list of what they want to change in the new year. Some list are longer than others but for the most part there is a list. Mines was quite simple, to be sexier than the year before. Yes indeed! I'm not talking about more revealing clothes and higher heels. I'm talking the depth of the soul sexy, something you can't buy but only build. That's the sexy that keeps you going and when stuff gets out of order and upside down, you can kick it right back. Of course before we can conquer our goals there is always a bump in the road.

Jan 1st came and with out a knock, a heartbreak entered my already crowded house. With no where else to go and no open arms, I let it in, with all it's baggage. Feeling overwhelmed with so many different emotions, I ask myself, how am I going to get my sexy now? A few days into the new month, I was already facing challenges that would change an important part of my life. Asking myself the same questions over and over, replaying the last five years of my life in my head like a song you love but forgotten all the words to. How did I get here? How was I living? I'm breathing but am I really living? I thought my life was ok, I was in love, have my family and friends, a career and my own place. What else did I need? Wait! Did I not ask for a new sexy? Did I think I was going to get it just that easy?

God has a plan for me and I know it's best, he makes no mistakes and gives only blessings. That new found sexy will come with a fight and I'm up for it. As the love month enters, I go in with a open mind and a crowded heart. Let's just hope I have a little room for whoever deserves it.

Hello February!
xoxo Madame Q

Braless For The Day!

2011-01-25T22:19:00.000-08:00

braless by madameq featuring mesh bras

This month has been crazy for me... really crazy, I mean to the point I ran out to do errands in a button down top, no bra and skinny jeans. Yes no bra! Don't judge me, I don't know what made me forget or shall I say not care. It felt good and I think I'm going to commit to doing it more often, well at least on my off days. One may ask what's the big deal? Well I'm a push up girl and a firm believer in the support of a bra and the only time I never wear one is if a top or a dress don't require one or if I'm in the comfort of my home. Besides I didn't realize it was missing until I reached in my shirt to get money and to my surprise I didn't have any because I wasn't wearing my hidden purse. I'm so old school but hey it works when you need to ditch your oversize bag to stash money or a card in your bra just to run out to grab lunch or etc. Any who, When I realized my breast armor was gone, I felt naughty and of course sexy. I even unbutton a few notches to give me a little more edge. The funny thing is, no one else knew, it was my little secret which made it much fun. I'll tell you one thing, I got stuff that usually takes me all day to do done in a few hours. I guess I had a little more pep in my step thanks to not wearing a bra.

xoxo Madame Q

Dear: Fearless 2011

2011-01-13T21:49:00.000-08:00

2011 by madameq featuring sports gloves

Kate's Paperie : Shop : 2011 Personal Pocket Weekly Planner, Metallic...
$20 - svpply.com

Everlast Women's Pink Boxing Gloves - Dick's Sporting Goods
$30 - dickssportinggoods.com
Sports gloves »

Negril Photos - Travel Photos of Negril, Jamaica - IgoUgo
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2011 Mercedes-Benz SLK-Class SLK300, $57,705 - Cars.com
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2010 was a pretty good year despite that fact I got mugged which forced me to move out of my old neighborhood. My old boss pushed me over the limit which left me to do less of everything that didn't involve work. All of the exhaustion and anxiety led to some pretty great things: a promotion and a brand new apartment all to myself! As I look back, everything that didn't make sense then, adds up now. Some how our sufferings and sacrifices leads to freedom and growth. Funny, no one seems to notice the beauty of pain until we overcome it.
2011 it's all about living my life as fearless as possible. I'm up for a lot more than ever... I'm not going to run around NYC in the nude but I'll sure go to a nude beach in the west indies or some other exotic part of the world. Hey, why not? We only live once right? Stop all of the WHAT IFs and IDKs, you would never know unless you try. I'm not just talking nude beaches, I'm talking things you desire to do, but never had the confidence to do so. Just try not to hurt the ones you love in the midst of it. If you tell the truth it shall set you free and you'll gain their respect in time.

Kick as in 2011!

What's on my to do list for 2011?

1. Spend more time with loved ones :)
2. Travel somewhere exotic ( wherever there is a nude beach)
3. Invest $ more in future plans
4. Join a volunteer charity
5. Learn how to drive
6. Get a learners permit
7. Get a driver's license
8. open space ( I might add something later)
9. another open space
10. buy a car!!!!!!

I'll definitely keep you posted on all of my accomplishments so stay tuned!

xoxo Madame Q

"New Shoes"

2011-01-10T16:12:00.000-08:00

A wise women once told me, " a boyfriend is like your favorite pair of shoes". I took some thought into her statement and then asked her why? She said, "Well think about it, you have had hundreds of shoes, lots of them you like and others you hardly use. There are a few of them you wear for certain occasions but only because you have no time to buy anything else. Then there is that one pair, you love and wear constantly and no matter how old they are, they never go out of style. The soles have worn out and the heels have broken down several times. You still hold on, fixing them time after time, hoping and praying they'll last. One day you get fed up with these favorite shoes and store them away. You shop all over town to find something new. You hope to get that same feeling you had for the last, you know the feeling... you can't live with out em, you just have to have them, no matter how much it cost! Finally you spot those shoes, they are calling your name and so you try them on and of course it's seems like a perfect fit. You take them home, try them on with different outfits, walk around in them all week so you can break them in. It's a few weeks now and your new shoes aren't quite what you thought they will be. You stop wearing them for a few days and pull out your random shoes just to give them another try. Of course nothing changed about them so you send them and your new pair away to charity. Without shame, you pull out your favorite shoes and slip them on with love, hoping to have a never ending story."

A wise man once said "For many men, the love of our life is like our good shoes". I looked at him and said what? Please explain. "We men all have our good shoes, which is like our favorite, we can depend on them to carrie us through the storm, show us out and makes us feel good. We want these shoes to be with us until they can't wear anymore. We don't have time to get them fix and don't really care to fix them. We store them in a box so nothing scuffs them and for them to stay fresh. We have our other shoes but they're nothing like the good pair that keeps us coming back. Those other shoes are just there for play so we let our friends borrow them because they're here for the moment and definitely replaceable. Sometimes we forget about our good shoes and what they've carried us through so every time we slip them back on, we pray they still fit them same.

So ladies and gents, I ask... what pair are you?

xoxo Madame Q

My Best Moments of 2010

2010-12-31T07:44:00.000-08:00

Wow what a great and fabulous year! So blessed! XOXO can't wait until 2011, a year of fresh beginnings!

xoxo Madame Q

Facing Holiday!

2010-11-27T19:57:00.000-08:00

The holidays are here and there's no such thing as a complete look without a fierce and fabulous face! Ndeye-Anna Jones a fashion and beauty expert gives some great tips for keeping a fresh yet glamorous face for the season.

beauty by madameq on Polyvore.com

AJ's and Madame Q's Must Do's and Don'ts for keeping a fresh face.

To Do
1. Stick with a daily cleansing routine that fits in with your schedule
2. Pick a cleanser that doesn't dry out your skin and choose a moisturizer that gives you a natural glow
3. Keep hydrated with water, it pays off with radiant skin
4. Try to wash you brushes once a week the least
5. Carry a small cosmetic bag for the basics like face wipes, lip gloss, eye liner. mascara, etc.

Please Do not
1. Go to sleep with makeup on. It can lead to clogging of pores
2. Share applicators. It can lead to spread of germs and infections
3. Apply makeup on someone else without washing hands or using sanitizer
4. Apply high concentrated lotion on your face. These products are usually for the /body
5. Leave home without your super hero (cosmetic bag) It always pays to look polish. Sometimes you never know where your heading or who you might see.

beautyzone by madameq on Polyvore.com

NARS Love Thrill, $59
MAC 182 Buffer Brush, $47
MAC 116 Blush Brush, $32
SEPHORA COLLECTION Colorful Artist Lipstick Palette ($51 Value)..., $15
PRO Airbrush FX Face Primer SPF 20, $14
Amazon.com: NYX Trio Eye Shadow: Beauty, $8.25
AVANT GARDE BEAUTY / CRAZY CREATIVE MAKEUP!

AJ's Beauty Faves
1. Black Cup makeup for blushes
2. M.A.C for foundations and blushes
3. Victoria's Secret for lipsticks: Vixen, Adorned and Starlet
4. Lorac makeup collection

What's fierce for the holiday Season?
Smokey eyes and shimmer stories are a girls best friend.

AJ's Beauty Secret: Before bed she washes her face, applies almond oil to prevent eye wrinkles and dry skin. She also uses natural shea butter daily to keep skin moisturized and healthy.

My favorite quote from AJ
"Beauty is everything and everyone has a different kind of beauty"

xoxo Madame Q

A New Relationship

2010-11-14T13:00:00.000-08:00

Moving has taken so much of me that I literally enjoy every moment I break away from it. Crazy right? Shouldn't it be the other away around? There's just too many decisions to make, from color stories, creating space, buying the right furniture and decor and not to mention unpacking. Somebody pray for me, seriously, but don't get it twisted I'm super excited I have my own place but the next time I'm hiring an assistant. If styling my rooms were as simple as creating an outfit, I'll be on top of the moon. There are plenty of things that I've bought and now hate and stuff I couldn't imagine buying before, that I'm so in love with. I guess that's how it goes, right?

Funny, my place feels like a new relationship or better yet an old or current. You can't run away from them, doesn't matter if they're intimate, related, professional or fun, all of them have their ups and downs. Just like my apartment and many of my other relationships my soul has to connect before thinking about it's flaws or beauty. I'll make a decision to go forward or not because I realized nothing in life is permanent, things are always changing and we can only control what we do on our behalf and take from the relationship exactly what it is. I didn't always think of it this way, I thought what you put in something, you'll get back the same but the more we experience, then well find out, that is not always the case. So I've learned to either accept things for how they are or move on from them.

There are a few things I don't like about my place but many things that I love and can't wait to experience. In life I deal with things as follows: If the beauty out weighs the flaws I can live with it which allows me to be more free and creative in the process. Whenever I'm not able to be myself and have to explain every little flaw that I have, I feel restricted and captivated. Thats when I know its time to move on and learn from it all.

p.s. I just remembered I need to change my address!
xoxo Madame Q

M.I.A Report

2010-11-10T19:54:00.000-08:00

Hey everyone!

I know I've been missing in action but no worries I'm back! There is so much going on in my life right now and Thank GOD it is all for the best! I recently got promoted to another role at work so I'm back in the heart of the city... midtown glamour. I'm Loving my new role and the direction I'm going with it, lets see where it takes me. I also moved from the North Bronx to Queens, I know... I can't believe it either. Me... Q, in Queens? I always thought Queens was in a world of it's own and didn't plan on questing it but you know how life works.

My mom is excited for me and always knew I would live somewhere like Queens or Long Island because growing up in Albany, NY, life is quite similar just without the trains. If you live in the suburbs or small towns then you know exactly what I mean. I knew after high school or college I'd run far away from that lifestyle and move back to Manhattan where I was born and partially raised. After I graduated from college I stayed with my grandmother for a little while and then decided to move out on my own.

Searching for apartments is five times worst then applying to colleges. Little did I know, rent in NYC, especially manhattan, cost more than most mortgages people pay upstate. I just can't get with paying $1800 for a studio apartment so thats how I got to the North Bronx. I was peacefully there for two years until one night in this past July I was mugged in my neighborhood for my damn IPhone. Not to mention the boy lives not too far from where I lived. WTF?

I learned a lot living in the Bronx, For starters never walk home late at night by yourself or at all. Catch a damn cab! Always know what's in your surroundings and the name of your side streets. Can you believe I never knew the name of the side streets in my neighborhood? If something were to happen, I couldn't tell the operator where the hell I was! Never underestimate or put anything pass anyone, I don't care if they're young, old, crippled or blind people are dangerous. Always call someone before you get on the train, cab or bus especially if you're going home alone or living alone. Most of all make friends with a least one of your neighbors so someone can look after you. These are things you think people know but let me tell you I was one who didn't so imagine how many others don't.

How I got to Queens...
Queens wasn't on the radar until my friend mom told me about an apartment next door to them so I checked it out, gave it some thought and moved in two months later. One of the greatest things about Queens is that my God son and bestie is 15 minutes away. There is no way I'm getting away from babysitting! It's all good because I was starting to feel like a dead beat God mother.

P.s.

I'm sure missing the hardwood floors in my last apartment and my roommate who was the best anyone could ask for but there is nothing like having a place of your own.

xoxo Madame Q

We Don't Have To Say Goodbye

2010-09-23T14:38:00.000-07:00

I love white pieces and as of last year I begin to adore white shoes. All spring and summer long I rocked it like it was going out of style and for some, it just might be. Who cares for rules? Labor Day has past but does not mean we have to give the color up and in fact I'm already scoping out some winter white pieces.

Winter White by madameq featuring off white boots

xoxo Madame Q

Intimate Warriors

2010-09-15T08:09:00.000-07:00

The days of steamy weather is at it's end and the return of Autumn as we know is coming in stronger than ever. Does this mean we forget all the style secrets from the summer? If we want to survive the season of multitasking, then we know the answer. Layering fab garments doesn't give us the right to be lazy with our undergarments so keep in mind the wonders of our intimates. With the passing of summer, we could have gain or loss weight in all the right places so getting a measurement is crucial.

Go into a Victoria's Secret store near you for a complementary bra fitting and a intimate wardrobe consultation.

xoxo Madame Q

September= Power Month

2010-09-06T07:50:00.000-07:00

September starts a new season of powerful beginnings in everything around us. With the return to school or new projects at work, keeping your family and friends on their toes and making space for social events can challenge you. What's the armor? A confident wardrobe! It will get you through anything or least lift your spirits.

The must have list:

Bold patterns, structured pieces, statement jewelry and killer pumps in warm colors are needed. Just because summer is over doesn't give you the right to look gloomy. Classic black is a definite but of course done sexy with major sophistication. Planning is crucial during this time of year so that calls for having the right gadgets and supplies.

xoxo Madame Q

Fall 2010: Leather&Pleather

2010-08-20T08:18:00.000-07:00

Leather never goes out of style unless you're wearing it from head to toe. Don't get me wrong there are a few who can pull the look off but I think it's done right when you mix it with other materials. Not only is leather here to stay for the fall season but faux leather will share the spotlight and were not just talking in jackets.

Madame's Look Book: From Summer to Fall

2010-08-17T10:44:00.000-07:00

(Chrissy and Alda in photos From left to right)

Prints are here to stay for the fall season... Here is some Inspiration:

Summer to Fall by madameq featuring Tory Burch dresses

xoxo Madame Q

Madame's Look Book: Ripped Raged Fab

2010-08-13T08:52:00.000-07:00

Ripped jeans have stormed in almost everyone's wardrobe since early spring and no worries you can continue to wear them throughout the fall. One may ask how one can carry over the trend and it's just simple: LAYERS! So I took photos of my sister (Bran in white jeans) and a associate of mine (Jasmine in blue jeans) to give you a spin of how they can wear the seasons most loved jeans into the next...

Here's Your Inspiration!

ripped to fab by madameq featuring Giuseppe Zanotti shoes

ripped to fab2 by madameq featuring TopShop shoes

xoxo Madame Q

Fall Your Inspiration!

2010-08-13T06:06:00.001-07:00

Fall is right around the corner and I can't wait because some of the best gear is waiting out there just for us! Lots of designers are pulling out their best garbs and we know just where to find them or at least something close to it. The upcoming season is all about statement pieces pulling the weight and animal prints being the life of your look. Get ready to mix some of your summer staples with layers of fall fab. If you're looking for inspiration and want it the old way... Essence, Bazar, Elle and Marie Claire have some extraordinary looks.

Keeping visiting the site to see what's going on in Madame's Look Book!

xoxo Madame Q

Why Don't You love Me?

2010-08-03T13:01:00.000-07:00

"Why Don't You Love Me" - Beyoncé from Beyoncé on Vimeo.

Beyonce says it best! "Why don't you love me? Tell me baby, why don't you love me? when I make me so damn easy to love"

xoxo Madame Q

To Bitch Or Not?

2010-08-03T09:28:00.000-07:00

Bitch Is the New Black by Helena Andrews is a funny and heartfelt memoir about an African American young lady striving for success while trying to date and keep close with family and friends. Ms. Andrews says what many of us would be afraid to or what many of us do and when some may give looks for saying things on your mind, just know you're not alone. Ms. Andrews and I have your back! Go and grab your copy and share it with your bffs over dinner.

xoxo Madame Q

Summer Fun: Museums

2010-07-29T17:11:00.000-07:00

Museums are a must see this summer, they keep you cool from all of the outside heat and most of all you learn so much from all of the exhibits.

My favorites thus far:

The Bronx Museum: Road to Freedom and After 1968 ( great photo exhibit and I'm going to see it again with friends!)

Miami: Bass Museum of Art

Brooklyn Museum of Art: From the Village to Vogue, Andy Warhol: the Last Decade, The Mummy Chamber and so much more

Metropolitan Museum of Art (MET): American Woman, Picasso, Doug + Mike Starn on the Roof: Big Bambu, Epic India: scenes from the Ramayana and so much more to see (It will probably take a full week to see everything).

Museum of Art and Design: Portable Treasuries and Dead or Alive: Nature Becomes Art

Now go and visit to see what exhibits are your favorites. Share the love!

xoxo Madame Q

Miami Heat

2010-07-23T14:47:00.000-07:00

The four days I spent in Miami were fabulous and my oh my the drinks were great for the heat. I loved being away at the beach, having cocktails on the rooftops and dining in the middle of the market way. Now I know I can do all of those things + more here in NYC but it's a whole different experience when you don't have to listen to loud vehicles in the mix. Oh Miami you will truly be missed!

xoxo Madame Q

Introducing: Madame's Tea Party

2010-07-15T09:55:00.000-07:00

Madame's Tea party is not your typical tea time , think of it as having spicy conversations with your friends, family etc. MTP will discuss everything from health, sex, money, fashion, music, food, locals, celebrities and much more. Stay tuned!

It's Tea Time by madameq featuring Fendi shoes

xoxo Madame Q

Madame's Look Book: Park in California Vintage

2010-07-14T22:17:00.000-07:00

A couple of weeks ago while waiting for my friends in downtown Brooklyn, I spot a girl hauling a cab. She seemed pretty frustrated not being able to get one right away and it's hard to believe one would miss her. She has on the only jacket, a colorful oversized delight paired with blue jean shorts, socks and shoes. Her look is amazing and I couldn't help but to go and chat with her to find out who she is. Her name is Park from LA, a student studying Spanish and dance and she is visiting a friend for the summer here in NYC.

My Favorite Piece: her vintage jacket

Inspiration:

Ms. Park by madameq featuring Miu Miu shoes

xoxo Madame Q

Video Spotlight: Rockstar by Rihanna

2010-07-10T06:05:00.000-07:00

People can say what they want about Rihanna but her Rockstar 101 video is the ish...

Cancers this is for you because we are rockstars... It's our Month!

xoxo Madame Q

The Month of the Crab (June 21- July 22)

2010-07-10T04:22:00.000-07:00

We're 10 days into July and only 10 days away from my birthday. Yes I'm a Cancer! Turning 26 creeps me out big time because Its usually the age when people measure their accomplishments. There is a lot more I have to do and with God's Blessings I'm sure 'll keep making things happen. For the past two years I've grown a lot and I'm constantly challenging myself to become a better me. Trust me there is lots of bumpy roads but I keep pushing knowing there would be a great outcome. Before I get back into the groove of things I'm taking a 10 day vacation spending some of it with the boyfriend in Miami, going wild with the girlies around town (not snoop dogg wild) and jazzing it up with family events.

Happy Bday by madameq featuring Avalaya brooches

I read a lot about my zodiac sign and I was pretty impressed about what I discovered. Everything just makes perfect sense of why I do the things I do. Go out and get Astrology Gems by Monte Farber and Amy Zerner, their work is amazing!

The Cancer

savvy
warm
compassionate
nurturing
intuitive
possesses a shrewd business sense
enjoys good food and wine
protective of friends and family
easily gets her feelings hurt
don't like to throw things away
overpowering
defensive
crabby

"Cancerians are legendary for their ability to nurture people and projects, for they sense the needs of others on an emotional level", Farber and Zerner.

xoxo Madame Q

Social Butterfly

2010-06-30T11:02:00.000-07:00

This summer I want to have fun and meet as many people as possible. It seems that everything I've been apart of happen because of the meeting random people. For example, I got my first college summer internship at the New York Film and Art Festival ( now New York Film and Video Festival) by simply talking to a stranger while waiting in a bathroom line. Weird right? That summer was awesome because I learned NYC to the fullest and a lot about the arts and the entertainment world. At the time of the internship I was studying Journalism and had goals of being an NBC reporter to cover war stories in Iraq or Africa. However after seeing lots of documentaries about journalist overseas I made the decision to cover entertainment and lifestyle.

Another one of my favorite bazar experiences is about partnering with a co-worker on an outside project. We both had dreams of doing a fashion show in the subway and within 2 month we gathered friends and sashayed from 14th street to Time Square. The list goes on about my encounters with strangers who are now some of close friends or mentors. Now forget about me, It's about you so go out and be the greatest stranger. Help someone with a project, give someone a chance or simply say hi to the person next to you. You never know!

Some great places to go: Habanna Outpost, Brooklyn and Bronx museum weekend events, Central Park free concerts, Lincoln Center summer festivities and there is so much more so stay tuned.

(picture of myself and Jamie from Writer's Block)

xoxo Madame Q

Barging Hunters: Great Finds

2010-06-25T20:38:00.000-07:00

While in Albany I had to stop by one of the best vintage shops, Great Finds. As soon as I entered one of the sales associates tell me there is 40% off most merchandise. You know I was in my glee and no one could ruin my moment not even when my sisters decided to leave me without a ride home. I didn't care I was in vintage heaven and I knew my mom will come for me sooner or later. While browsing through fabulous garb, I am approached by two lovely fashionistas, Petra and Navada. We spend the rest of the hour picking out pieces for each other, taking pics and talking about randomness. What a blast we had, you would think we've known each other for years. Too bad I was leaving for NYC, we could've carried the night away. At least I left the Great Finds shop, with not only amazing pieces but two more fashionistas in my network.

Petra and Navada, you Rock!

xoxo Madame Q

Madame's Notes: The laughing Drought

2010-06-24T09:11:00.000-07:00

I went to Albany to visit my family and to attend my nephew Nakiem's kindergarden graduation. Boy oh boy is Nakiem a trip and a half, at only five he knows more than some adults. His free spirit and bright smile gives me inspiration to look at my life a little differently. Why do we as adults loose the feeling of being free and bright? Are we taking things too seriously and forgetting to have fun? In the moments of Nakiem's laughter I remember the affect joy has on a person's soul. Recently I've done a lot more fussing than laughing and find myself overwhelmed. I thought about it and some of my best laughs have been by myself and now I've waited for others to give the invitation. Sound crazy? I think many of us rely on people to make us feel complete and over the moon. Why would we ever do that? No one in the world but the higher power knows what makes us truly happy. Everyone else around us is just there to celebrate.

p.s. Now I know there are people out there who will try to kill your joy but the fact that they try and fail is comical itself. When you have family and friends celebrating life with you it makes a great difference and I love mines for that. Especially my mom who knows me best.

xoxo Madame Q

Madame's Notes: Investing In You

2010-06-17T06:59:00.000-07:00

It's almost 2 years since moving out on my own (college campus doesn't count) and It's been great. Of course I've could of had 24 pairs of Christian Lous but nothing can compare to having your own space. Can you believe I asked my friends before moving out what was better, a pair of Christian Loubs or an apartment? Now don't go making faces, C.Ls are power women shoes and at that time I thought I was. Truth be told after making the right decision, I felt more powerful than ever. Things started to fall right in place and trust me there are many ups and downs but surviving (Thank God) does a lot for my soul.

P.S. I'll take my hardwood floors over any shoe, any day.

xoxo Madame Q

For My Bargain Hunters!

2010-06-04T11:11:00.000-07:00

bargainista by madameq featuring Bourne shoes

Hey I'm a super promoter on creating a good wardrobe because it's one of the many fundamentals of branding yourself. Let's face it, you have to look the part to get the part. Presentation goes a long way and I take it very serious. Now shopping for your special look doesn't mean you have to drop thousands. I'm a bargain shopper so I simply buy classic yet fun pieces for great prices. I encourage you all to do the same. Don't get me wrong it's okay to spend major dollars on certain things but not every item.

Your Treat: Designer Sample Sales:

Diane Von Furstenberg, 260 fifth Ave, 212-725-5400
June 8, 9 a.m. - 6:30 p.m.
June 9, 9 a.m. - 8 p.m.
June 10th, 10 a.m - 7 p.m
June 11th 9 a.m - 3 p.m.

Escada 110 W. 19th St. 212-852-5446
June 13th-15, 10 a.m. - 7 p.m.

xoxo Madame Q

Last Weekend!

2010-06-04T08:18:00.000-07:00

Last weekend was very looooong but the girls and I had non stop fun. We went from from Sex and the City, to art and fashion exhibits at the Met, to Brooklyn dining and back yard parties to beaches on the Island and finally mellowing it out in Queens; we lived the weekend like it was our last.

Oh and by the way, The Smoke Joint in Fort Green, Brooklyn has the best mac and cheese.

xoxo Madame Q

Madame's Playlist: La Roux- I'm Not Your Toy

2010-05-28T07:30:00.000-07:00

Dance off the weekend with La Roux... Love this damn song. I'm Not Your Toy... yeah yeah (high pitch voice). Not only is the song fab but the fashion in the video is crazy. It's so old school funkadelic glam meets futuristic urbanite posh... Love it!

xoxo Madame Q

Memorial Weekend!!!!

2010-05-28T06:29:00.001-07:00

So the girlies and I decide to keep it local this Memorial weekend again and knowing us we'll have a blast. If your friends are like mines, than you know itineraries are involved and there's lots of expectations. We plan on starting it off with Sex and the City tonight followed by drinks and the rest of the weekend is a mystery. I can't wait to give you updates on all the randomness we come across. I hope you all have a fabulous weekend Madame's Mirror style, remember anything goes just as long as it's legal. I hope you enjoy the random photos of the girls and I having fun. We usually all can't come out together because of work and other priorities but when we do... Danger!

p.s. let go and get crazy...

xoxo Madame Q

Ladies Night Out: Dinner and a Movie

2010-05-25T20:20:00.000-07:00

This Thursday May 27, the most highly anticipated chick flick is coming to theaters. Of course I'm talking about the Sex and the City sequel ! I love the story lines but go crazy over the shoes and wardrobe of the lovely fashionistas. Their sisterhood is inspiring and I can't wait to grab my bffs and run in our fiercest pumps to watch Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte and Samantha on the big screen.

xoxo Madame Q

Madame's Playlist: Get Up by Ciara

2010-05-20T13:40:00.000-07:00

Let Ms. Ciara pump up your Thursday with her hot track, "Get Up"!

xoxo Madame Q

Madame's Notes: M.I.A

2010-05-20T13:29:00.000-07:00

Hey People,

I know I haven't post anything in quite some time and I apologize. I definitely miss you soooooo much! Things have been crazy, scary and pretty damn good all in one. I will give you an update on everything soon. Until then, please get an early start on a fabulous weekend!

xoxo Madame Q

Madame's Playlist: Video Phone

2010-05-01T12:26:00.001-07:00

I'm feeling sexy and it's contagious... enjoy!

xoxo Madame Q

Ladies Night Out!

2010-05-01T12:11:00.000-07:00

I'm heading out to meet up with my sister and grandma than later on linking up with the girls to enjoy this fabulous weather. By the way if you and friends are in the meatpacking district swing by 675. This bar/lounge has private rooms with different entertainment in each so you can have a blast with your crew. We played Jinga, watch Terminator, chat with strangers and of course ordered drinks and appetizers. The place is pretty damn cool...

xoxo Madame Q

Madame Notes: Spring/Summer Hair

2010-04-21T09:16:00.000-07:00

Okay so I've been wearing my hair short for the past 7 years and for the last 3 years during the winter I always grow it out and add extensions. I love that I have the option of doing whatever I want! Now it's back short and well I don't know if I'm loving the fact that everyone has their hair short and hair stylist are calling it a "Rihanna Do". I love the girl but she didn't invent that look and neither did I but damn I don't feel so exclusive anymore. Who am I kidding? a million women can have their hair short but their is only one Madame Q. Selfish right? I know but sometimes you just have to be that way.

xoxo Madame Q

Madame's Playlist: La Roux- Bullet proof

2010-04-15T06:39:00.000-07:00

My Theme song: Bulletproof is the jam... Sometimes I feel like with all i go through and how it gets me down sometimes but you know what I AM STRONG and the higher power only makes ME STRONGER and it feels like bulletproof.

This song is like an old 80's/new school punk... Love the song and her hair! This time baby, I'll be... Bulletproof! I hope this kicks off your day.

xoxo Madame Q

Madame Notes: Familiar Places

2010-04-13T18:33:00.000-07:00

Last week during my "Me Time" I went back into my old neighborhood, Lincoln Center. I remember the early afternoons chilling on the steps of glamorous monuments and taking long walks in Central Park. At night I would go to Francisco's Pizzeria and grab a slice with garlic nots and a orange Fanta. All of these exercises were simple yet fabulous for me. Not to mention this area has everything you need, lots of shopping and entertainment for sure. Luckily my Grandma still lives in the area so I don't get home sick too often but I sure miss it from time to time.
xoxo Madame Q

Madame's Playlist: Tightrope by Janelle Monae

2010-04-13T13:07:00.000-07:00

I love Janelle Monae's style and her music just makes you want to jump up and dance. Check out those move in the video!

xoxo Madame Q

Presenting: Madame of the Month

2010-04-12T07:34:00.000-07:00

Madame of the Month by madameq featuring Anya Hindmarch bags

Hey people, if you know any fabulous ladies out there that deserves to be Madame (21yrs-or older) or Madamette (12yrs-20yrs) of the Month, send me an email of why this individual is a great candidate. We are looking for teenage girls and women who are inspiring to you and other people because of their career or community service contribution.

send all emails to madamemirror@gmail.com.

xoxo Madame Q

Brooklyn Vybez: Brooklyn Museum's First Saturdays

2010-04-08T19:51:00.000-07:00

Growing up, museums and galleries were apart of my life style. My grandmother would take my siblings, cousins and I to a different event at one almost every weekend during the summer. I guess it's no mystery why I love history and the arts so much. Anyway, I've heard about some events at the Brooklyn Museum that takes place the first saturday of every month. Target sponsors the event and there's free lectures about current exhibits, activities, food, drinks and performances. A year has gone by and I still never checked it out until last week saturday. The place was packed and full of life, people socialize and have a ball dancing and enjoying the music. The sad part is I got there 45 minutes before it ends but don't worry I'll be much earlier next time. In God's speed.

P.S
The Bronx Museum, Lincoln Center and MOMA have Target free events so be sure to check it out!
xoxo Madame Q

Culture & Arts: FIT Museum

2010-04-08T19:00:00.000-07:00

Tuesday I went to the FIT Museum to see the Night and Day and American Beauty exhibits and they are pretty good.

Before I entered the museum I came across a pretty good presentation in the lobby.

Night and Day makes you realize how important appearance and presentation is for women. Just think about the rules many women had to follow for decades and the rules many of us are breaking today. I remember my grandmother never wanting to wear shorts or a bikini, she would say, "It's not the Christian thing to do", now I have to hide her two piece and fitted dresses.

The American Beauty exhibit is about modern innovations and top designers in the United States. Although there are plenty of great inspiring styles, I feel a slight disconnect. I can not afford many designers like Channel, Dior, Louis V and many others. Many people I know can't afford their clothing so what do we do? We shop in stores like H&M, Zara, Forever 21, Marshalls, Loweman's and etc. Now their shoes are more affordable for me so that's the only connection I'll have with them for now unless I come across a Dior jacket in a thrift shop which sometimes I do. I think you get the point so as for me, American Beauty has nothing to do who's name is on your suit but how you make the suit work for you.

P.S true American Beauty is the fusion of culture & style that connects us all from hip-hop to Harajuku

xoxo Madame Q

Bronx Tales: Exploring Culture

2010-04-08T11:21:00.001-07:00

Hey People,
Having two days off back to back has been glorious! Getting some "ME TIME" while exploring the Bronx so I'm off to see a few exhibits at the Bronx Museum. I'll share with you my thoughts and other interesting things and people I come across!

P.S
There is so much I have to share with you so stay tuned for more on my "Me Time", Bronx Tales and an update on Brooklyn Vybez.

Smooches

xoxo Madame Q

Kelis is Back!

2010-03-30T22:00:00.001-07:00

I'm so loving Kelis new video Acapella! She is back fashionable and crazy as ever and I love it, can't wait to see what she does next.

p.s. I love this lyrics to the song, some may think she's talking about a guy but I think she's talking about her first child. What do you think?

SIde BAr: her diamond-like mask is over the top!

xoxo Madame Q

Madame's Notes: My Bronx Tales

2010-03-25T13:30:00.000-07:00

I moved to the North Bronx almost 2 years ago and I don't know much about this borough besides my neighborhood, the few family members that reside here and the Bronx Zoo. I spend most of my time working, socializing and playing in Manhattan (my birth place and family) and Brooklyn. I never feel compelled to do anything socially in the Bronx and feel there is nothing good about it except the affordable rent. Maybe I'm wrong and the next time I'm on the train going into the city I'll look out the window and give the Bronx another look. I'll keep you posted on my Bronx Tales... Fashionably of course.

p.s. If you have any suggestions about having fun in the Bronx, email me madamemirror@gmail.com
xoxo Madame Q